What happened to courtesy?

What happened to courtesy?

Confucius
"When the music and courtesy are better understood and appreciated, there will be no war. "

Common courtesy could be defined as:
A courtesy
behavior generous
Complimentary
Light Behave
Be kind to other

To demonstrate my interest in what happened to courtesy, that even established using four letter words.

What happened to civility?

A few days ago, I was almost crushed in the shop thirty years and mother of two children. No apology, no recognition, nothing.

Too often, these days it seems normal behavior, the general attitude is "Yo, yo, yo.

I'm 74 years old, always open to the elderly, disabled and others. What happened to our courtesy and good manners?

Why is our society seems so angry?

We are not used to have:

Rage
As the place work
School shootings
Children playing with other children
Parents and children together.

We used to greet people in the road. Now, we give a one finger salute. This is not right.

Is it the economy?
The bad politics in Washington?
Are there too many?
Is the proliferation of cell phones?

What happened?

I do not know what caused it. I know that can be changed by a person to change their behavior.

Unknown:
"It's hard to find a courteous person today who does not try to sell something."

One of the things you can do is take a look at your anger. Who did this? Who made you mad?

Find out. Write inventory resentment.

List all your life and I blame all those who can not stand. Who are you wrong? What have they done? Write it. So forgive each of them, release them and let go.

It's easy to say something like: "John, I do not blame you and can not stand. I thank you, I set you free."

Review your list. Then make an apology all persons guilt and resentment.

Finally, resentment and guilt of consciousness.

W
hen loss of faith makes you human? When did you notice the world was a place of anger?
I started five or six years, and has worsened. Where are our manners and kindness gone?

Are we just do not care?
Is it war?
Is it a recession?
Is it time?
Or what?

It may not be able to answer questions, but you can take positive steps.

Unknown:
"Courtesy is a small act, but packs a mighty blow."

I decided to do something about my own anger and resentment. 15 practical tips below and try to make my little corner of the world a better place.

Here's how you can bring back gold. You can help to civility in our world.

15 things you can doTake a daily time to:

1. Read something spiritual
2. Meditate
3. Write a thankful list
4. Tell someone you love
5. Smile and wave to your neighbor
6. Someone in front of you in the wheel for
7. Open the door for someone
8. at least three people before noon Smile
9. Laugh at yourself at least once before the end of the day
10. Compliment someone
11. Say "thank you" someone
12. Joint eye contact with people
13. Keep your thoughts spin '
14. Clean one drawer, a file, the garage or closet
15. Spend time with loved ones

Ralph Waldo Emerson:
"Life is short but it's always time for courtesy."

These 15 processes, you will be happier and the people around you. If everyone just do this every day, the world would be a better place.

Maybe someone else You can see the goodness and the decision to act better as well, and this will cause a domino effect.

Thomas Fuller:
"All doors open to courtesy. "

Summary

Unknown:
"Courtesy should be a continuous action, not something that turns on and off like a faucet. "

Maybe if you start with above, aa affects another person to do the same. They can turn to others and to establish a wave of goodwill and courtesy, extend and make our society a better place.

Copyright © 2010 Wee Dilts

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Wee Dilts is a counselor, a psychologist, a metaphysical trainer. A teacher of self improvement for years. She has helped thousands with her Free articles and Ebooks on how to change your life. To get Free self help articles visit http://www.changeyourlifeebooks.com

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